MIND vs HEART

It said me...

Many things we do

But never willing to

Mind says its right,

At the same time heart overwrites, WRONG!

Heart wanted to be with loved ones,

Chose that way, declining the mind

But now feeling, I was not correct

Followed the mind, I would be at a different position.

Heart always gives you path to happiness

Mind always shows the path to development

It is you who have to choose

Happiness after 40 or after 20 till 40…

Again happiness came with all my friends

Following heart went with them

Thought its only short time, then will follow mind this time

But it became a habit, which even after removing remained a bit..

All says follow heart, if you actually want to live

But sometimes it happens you have to pay for it

Following mind makes you tough and hard hearted

Losing all then it becomes you all departed.

Its awesome to see heart and mind going in same way

No conflict will go in mind and you in hay

But sometimes you know you are played as a game

But heart overpowers mind and makes you lame..

Make your aim, fix your goal, and follow your mind

Follow your heart throughout the way..

But be prepare it will not always be with you

You have to be alone always..is the truth

It’s you who think of you

It’s you who is your best friend

It’s you who is the best here

It’s you who have to think of you

Just always support yourself and be happy..J

Parmita

Give a thought

Hi friends..

This time it is not a poem or a verse. If we just think deeply about our lives, I feel there are are various things that we are missing.

Till school we are not much aware of our own life.it just becomes a routine and we follow it blindly.After that during college time we start knowing life. Sometimes we take it so casually, sometimes we feel it too complex. Some just run after career in a way that a time comes when see that he is lost.


He lost the fun of life fun with friends. The whole life parents take care of us but suddenly we start giving more importance to friends. Its not that we start neglecting them or not attached to them but we start missing our friends but rarely our parents.  Hats off to our parents that they never complain.

Just think of our girls’ life. It’s damn tough. Firstly we always have our parents with us. Then our parents only start finding someone who can take care. We have grown up in such a environment which taught us to be free to be independent. But we never get a chance to be independent. And then they face the challenge of caste creed and all horrible things. This society is so horrible that people gets divided just because of this stupid reason. What’s the use that we study that we are all one? People should be treated equally. 
These are all bookish things. In India what we study always remain in books. And the society is still the same as it was 100 years back.

Neither can it develop. In the age of marriage it is always expected that we have a homely nature, why can’t the other one help equally. It is always asked that what does the boy do, how much he earns and what’s the profile. And for us it just asked which caste and weather homely or not. We are equally educated and equally talented but what the use no one feels it.Even if we earn it’s just fine and it does not even matter to them. Don’t we have any importance? And the worse thing many of us just ruins their present life thinking of that they will be pushed to a well. But it’s the story of all girls, why to waste our present life. We get a independent life for a very short span, just enjoy to fullest. Because it is just impossible to change this society. It’s just the youth says no to these things but in a long run they also simply change.

Girls knowing all these fact happily accept it and never complain. But this does not mean that we don’t have any dreams but we just don’t show. Although girls continue with their job it is just treated as side job. Never gets that importance the opposite sex gets. Then just for children lots and lots of sacrifices. Boys still say it’s just our duty. They expect a lot and sometimes if it is not fulfilled then we are wrong. It is very truly said if you are the best and once u did a wrong deed even unknowingly u will be remembered for that. Boys can have their full life planning their career and all.


 But girls can always have a plan till marriage because she never knows where and how will she stay. It’s totally a new life for her. I am not saying that boys are wrong but in any case why can’t we get the equal importance .Why are we never given a chance to be independent. Why is the society still male dominant.

I know many issues are highlighted but all are true..Friends please give it a thought...

Parmita Biswas

Aamke aamar moton thakte deo..

Let me live my life...




Please let me lead my own life
I have my own  space for myself
I am not bothered about what I could not achieve.
Abundance would ruin my life.


In your obscure world
If you wish, you can float like a speck of dust
I am not going to dip into the future. 


My world is shattered 
Still I am scripting my own survival tale.
I am no longer game for her midnight tantrums
So I am trying hard to get on the shore. 

If one early morning you re-discover your  love for me,
Dont stretch your arms for me
As I wont be there by your side.
Dont turn on the lights for me
I have got lost in the sea of humanity in this railway station.
I wont be back by the last train.

Your world is moving around  your ambitions.
If you could ever squeeze out time, please ponder (over)
Whether i really feature in your scheme of affairs. 
In your materialistic world,
I dont want to be treated like those vegetables withering in the cold (in fridge )
Or a speck of dust floating in a  glass of water.

Bengali song translated

Is it necessary

Is it necessary ??????

There are many people here

Whom you never want to be sad

Whatever may be the reason

But you never make them hurt..

Sometimes you want to be so nice to them,

They starts taking you granted

Just stops taking care of you

And expecting hell lot from you..

Although you know they are not caring

Still you don’t say just to keep him happy

They live the way they want

They are happy..You too want J

Does this mean you don’t have emotions?

Is it necessary to show your care?

Or they should understand it

And they can also show a bit…

You are quiet just for their happiness

And they think it’s just obvious

But still you too need a little care back

A small care, a small ray of hope..

Parmita

Bleed Blue!

Bleed Blue!

Its 2^nd April 2011

Quite similar to one 28 years ago,

Waiting for the proud moment

All here for an happy end!

BLEED BLUE!!!

Billions of eyes struck on screen,

Thirteen on field, stealing our hearts,

Lanka facing the spinners

Also the pacers, the heat, the INDIANS.

BLEED BLUE!!!

All crazy on cricket

Just trying to repeat history

Hope India will get the 2^nd WC winning captain

Hard work, sweat since years not in vain.

BLEED BLUE!!!

Bollywood city Mumbai, now for cricket crazies

Time passes, run increases, heart beat too.

Roads vacant, offices empty, all fixed on match

Waiting for late night parties, a catch.

BLEED BLUE!!!

The spirit is great in stadium

Whoever the winner is

Encouragement for youth should come

May be INDIA OR SRILANKA,

ITS BLEED BLUE!!!

Parmita Biswas

Be patient, be the LOSER

Be patient, be the LOSER

You know you are the best

But cannot always remain.

You can be the worst

But cannot always remain.

You can give your best,

But not always, it has a limit.

You can work a lot

But not every time, otherwise you will hit.

You can care for someone

But you should bound yourself

You can expect a lot

But it too has a check.

You work hard for it

But you just get the shit

It’s all about the patience

You are tied in the fence.

For how long you can wait

Just depend on your capability

All have it in his own way

But the result is just opposite of your ability.

May be your senior or junior

Shout out when they are wrong

No matter who are they,have no fear

And make your reach long.

The more the patience you have,

The bigger the loser you are

You just loose slowly and unknowingly

Don’t wait , don’t bear, just fire..

Parmita…

Priceless!

!!

Walking alone, with the cold breeze

All of a sudden, all quite and you sneeze

Sweet smile just thinking of someone

The olden best days, simply the best..

Meeting a best pal after long

The last piece of chocolate with someone

Having a smile listening to a song

It’s all you and you have won.

Unknowingly Appreciation from your friend

A stupid joke when you are serious

Brings a smile, internal happiness

These all are simply priceless.

Imitating your boss, after his lecture J

A b day wish from someone not expected

All invaluable, sweet moments

Can’t be bought with cents

A baby smiling looking at you

A bird singing after a shower in summers

Today’s dream, tomorrow coming true

Just think of it…and be happy..J

Parmita Biswas

An AwEsOmE eVeNiNg

An Awesome evening

Lonely walking among the trees

Feeling the cool breeze

This city is not that bad

The thinking I had..

Sitting with office work since morning

No one with me except my lappy

It has become my best friend

And I am always enjoying..

Alone too you can enjoy

With the beautiful memories you have

Few moments you get to spend with yourself

Spend it with fun and joy..

Thinking of my best days

Reading the old chats

Full volume music on ear phones

Just Having a smile on face....

Parmita Biswas

Kuch baatein

Kuch baatein

Wo kal hi to hai jab hum ghar pe  the,

Kuch din pehle ki hi baat hai jab hum khelte the,

Wo mauj wo masti, kahi kho gayi hai,

Wo din ,wo mahine badal gaye hai…

Wo sapne dekhna aur phr mehnat krna,

Mehnat karne par phal bhi paana,

Wo chhoti chhoti baato me khushi,

Zindagi me khushi, aur khushi me zindagi dhoondna…

Guzarte samay ko koi rok nahi paata,

Badalte insane koi rok nahi sakta

Kuch khaas log kisi aur ko khas bna lete hai

Aur phr apni kismat ko dosh dete hai.

Naye daur me sab log vyast ho gaye hai

Apno se doori banti jaa rhi hai

Kahi aisa na ho fasle aur badh jae

Aur phr wo yaadon me hi reh jae..

Parmita Biswas